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December 05, 2007

along came a fella

thinking hard

My little parker has been charming the pants off me.

Despite a very nasty eczema flare up with icky crusty scabby bits he has been happy and, mostly, without temper tantrums. My boy is very passionate. He feels everything to the extreme. Anger, frustration, love, joy.

He takes me through my paces on a daily basis. Making me breathe deeply when he throws things in frustration or hits me because he can't have his way. My goal has always been to help him learn how to express himself without having to resort to aggressive outbursts.

It has been a tough road. He is not there yet. But slowly, he is learning.

The bonus of these extreme feelings is his snuggly lovingness. If i toss and turn in the middle of the night he will sit up and give me a kiss and rub my back. If he sees that i am sad he will reach up and grab my hand. He, absolutely, cannot start the day without several minutes of giggles, tickles, and kisses.

When he is sick he asks me to go to bed with him saying "it makes me feel better."

He loves his family. Every morning when the kids get ready for school he gets sad and asks me if they can stay home. We spend our days together doing errands, cleaning and hanging out at the school. All of it is just biding time for him till he can see his siblings again.

He is such a lovely little boy. I feel so happy to have him in my life.


Posted by Jess at 12:39 PM Permalink

Comments (6)

You are blessed to have such a diverse little one in your life. Just think of all that he can be.

Lori

Hey Jess...just thinking about you and the kids so much~ and so glad you can *see* through the *stuff* to the wonderful and so special. The unconditional love of a child! those of us lucky enough to have it need to cherish it, as they grow ONLY too fast, my first child, MY first *baby*, Kyle will be 21 Jan 6! where did the time go?? yet when I look at him, I do not *see* a strong and responsible man, I see my first wiggly, trusting baby with red/auburn hair and HUGE dark brown eyes....that I could and would BE there for him, as I still am, and as I am for the other three...my junebug is 10...as is yours...but yours is your oldest....and so we are strong and do what we can, and yet we lean and reach for any help we need when we can. take care...always here....if Tristan wants to be snail or email buddies with Shannon let us know....

Lori fellow Junemom~

Me

He's an "old sole" he was sent here to take care of those around him....I have one too..they are amazing little creatures...Love every minute!

Me

He's an "old sole" he was sent here to take care of those around him....I have one too..they are amazing little creatures...Love every minute!

A deep thinker, who hasn't yet learned to express himself. Sounds somewhat familiar to me. You have a very kind soul there Jess. And he will learn to nurture that part of him, as you do.

S

What do you use when he has an eczema flare-up? Oatmeal? Cold compress? Please advise. Thank you.

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