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June 24, 2006

on phone calls, subscriptions and perfume

When i was in university i had my own radio show on the campus radio station. My show was called "my grandmas big red car!"

I loved doing my show. Spending hours in the record and cd library. Fondling stack upon stack of 7" records. Picking out two hours worth of music. Then locking myself in the booth and turning the speakers up really loud for my show.

I never really knew how popular my radio show was. The CRTC said that every phone call counted for 700 listeners. I usually got four or five calls. That was good enough for me. There was a fine balance between being too popular, which meant the music you were playing was a little bit too mainstream, and being a navel gazing loner.

I feel that way when i look at bloglines and see how many people subscribe to my blog. How many people would one subscriber represent? How do i compare to other people i really like? How about those ones that i secretly lurk on? And, crap, i am NEVER going to get that many!

So many people talk about commenting and comments, traffic, blog courtesy, blah, blah, blah. I can't keep up with all that and frankly, i don't want to. I love getting comments and i always check out the blogs of commenters. I comment every now and then. I just don't have time. I appreciate all the blogs i read. I appreciate everyone that reads my blog. Isn't that enough?


Posted by Jess at 09:14 AM Permalink

Comments (13)

Yup, it's enough.

I'm emerging as a long time lurker to say heck ya' it's enough. I love reading your blog.

Ada

what are bloglines? is this a paying subscription thing?

It's a feedburner, totally free and totally handy.

It is for me- I love hearing from you and I prolly should comment more, myself.
It shouldn't matter, all this comparing oneself/popularity stuff- but it takes some doing to NOT get all caught up in this, doesn't it?
In the end, it's the process not the product, as they say.
I ALWAYS read you, BTW, (and other people on my links list)
And, heck, I don't even know HOW to subscribe to a link/blog actually so I probably am doing it wrong and do not show up anywhere.
Just rambling,
Grammacello

It's enough. I love reading about you, your kids, your husband...your life.

It's enough. I'm reading, but I don't always have time to comment either.

I agree. It IS enough. Unless you're trying to make a living off your blog I think it's important to remember why you started it in the first place — for you!

Mmm. secret lurker, I am. :)

I know all my "stats" but I have only a few regular commenters (and bless-her-heart, Julie who comments on nearly every post!) so it makes me feel mighty lonely.

But then I know that I read many, many, many more blogs than on which I comment, so it would be hypocritical for me to expect many comments if I don't provide many comments. :)

And, I love doing my blog. So even if people didn't read it, it would be fine.

I look forward to meeting you at BlogHer. ;-)

People blog for all sorts of reasons. Whether it be to make a living or just keep the family living far away up to date, it's always nice to receive comments and feedback. I find with my site, MSN spaces...people prefer to email me rather than sign up. I often lose out on possible comments and then I feel sad...teehee.

I love your site and your photos! I'm always here and I'll comment more often!

oh and...yes it's enough! LOL...you are *drowning in kids, remember?* ;)

i'm right there with ya.

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